A lot of men that want to improve their success with girls want to become an alpha male. You know what I’m saying here. The guy that’s always in command. The guy that always gets what he wants. The man that always has the women chasing him.
Some men just act like jerks to other people to show that they have “social proof. “  They take every minor accomplishment as a chance to boast about their pathetic life.
These guys are being stupid and you don’t want to be like them.
These guys are not alpha males. They only demonstrate how desperate they are for approval.
The real alpha guys are rock-solid and have nothing to prove. They do not have to because they know inside what their life is about. They live by their own principles and don’t put much stock in whether others think of them as “alpha. “
In order to become an alpha male, you need to stop caring about others’ opinions of you and just do your own thing. Stop the stupid stunts that others do to show off. Real alpha guys do not need to show off because they already know deep down that they are cool guys .
Okay, now the practical stuff.
Start taking initiative in your day to day decisions. Quit passively waiting for others to decide things, just step up to the plate. It is not even important if you care that much about the decision. Simply decide on something. A lot of people cannot deciding things and taking charge of a situation. Plus you can skip those ten minute “I don’t know, what do you want?” conversations. Taking initiative is really simple, and you will be surprised at how often people will just follow you.
You will also need to get clear about what you value about your life. What are your life goals?  Who or what are you becoming?  Alpha males have strong values. Don’t let others tread on your values. However, you should not go out of your way to get into a fight or start an argument. It is often possible to solve disagreements with a civilized conversation, but don’t be afraid to fight if someone is flat out rude and refuses to apologize. Once you get this, you will naturally become confident and do all that “alpha male” stuff everyone else is recommending. After you know what your life is all about, you will never find yourself feeling insecure again.
So stop trying so hard to be “alpha. Just work on following your life goals and everything else in your life will naturally resolve itself. The real alpha men do not put much value on appearances so you should stop doing so as well.

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